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Let us first see why some do not prefer having sex on their first date:
It may affect emotionally:
Okay so you had a rollicking time in the bed on your first date, but be prepared for the emotional awkwardness that may arrive later on. If there are no follow up phone calls, consider your first date is also the last date with the person. It can be emotionally humiliating when this happens.
Loss of self-respect:
Let us first discuss from the man’s point of view. If a man falls prey to some woman’s sexual desire, he can lose his self-confidence after the act. While a woman who has sex on a first date just to please the man is selling her self-respect. The man will not have any respect for her.
Fear of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs):
There is a greater risk of sexually transmitted diseases if you have unprotected sex on your first date, especially on a blind date.
On the other hand, having sex on the first date also has some pros:
The enjoyment in having sex:
Psychologically, it is good to have sex as long as both the partners enjoy it. If you enjoy having sex and if your date feels the same, then just go for it.
Compatibility:
Supporters argue that having sex on the first date helps to know whether you are sexually compatible or not. It creates a spark of passion which is helpful, at times, to sustain a long term relationship.
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